Anonymous: so what do i do... i kinda hate life now and am depressed as i said before to you... :| i looked at symptoms of depression on the internet and i fit most and i draw but my drawings have become dark.. the people i draw have black under there eyes and are thin and dying.. i can't tell anyone i know about this.
i know exactly how you feel. ive been through that all as well. i use to draw depressing images, listen to sad songs, and stay in my bed all day reading books at one point. the symptoms may match up with how you are feeling, but it isn’t permanent. it’s a phase you go through sometimes. even when you’re going through puberty because your body doesnt know how to handle all the changes at once. its a normal thing but if it lasts for longer than a couple of days. try changing your atmosphere, to something more positive or get your mind off of what you might be worrying about. there are many things that could affect your mood. like the weather, so people around you, or family. just change your surroundings (:
hope that helps x
Anonymous: Ok so I am super confused. About 2 years ago, I went out with this guy twice. And now he is in my class again and I don't know whether I like him or not. What is your opinion on this? Or how should I get him to notice me? x
i suggest that you just keep it cool i mean, its been 2 years, things have changed :) get to know whats new with him and such and become friends, during that process you can figure out if you like like him or just as friends :) but be careful because sometimes its a lead on, or mix signals! well if he’s in your class now, just get to know him :D
Anonymous: Ok so I have this friend who is a very famous actress.. she's been acting since very young but we've kinda grew up together and i sorta always had the spotlight... now she's really big BUT has not sold out, she is still the most amazing person and doesnt really act like she's a big deal when amongst friends.. but i dont have the spotlight anymore and am kinda jealous... am i a bad person for this?
its not that you’re a bad person or whatever. you’re just use to getting all the attention thats all! ( : and your friend is doing a very good thing, not acting all big and stuff because most people would get full of themselves. don’t worry about how you feel right now, there’s always going to be changes in your life <3
Anonymous: i hate my body. i hate myself when i eat. i just want to cry. recovering is killing me. it's just making things worse. i hate myself more than i ever have.
how are you recovering? i suggest you surround yourself with positive energy. many people, mostly of which are girls do not like their bodies, but that is okay! have you ever tried telling someone about this? someone close to you, because it might help you feel better. you just need comfort and realize that you’re beautiful girl <3
Anonymous: i hate eating. i hate myself when i'm eating. i hate food. when i eat it i cant help but feel so weak and defeated. i know how i sound when i say that, but i cant help it. i just want to be empty. ive never been skinny and all i want is to look at myself and feel beautiful.
you’re already beautiful. just dont punish your body by starving, just eat really healthy like a lot of salads before a meal you eat because it helps. drink a lot of water and exercise! It honestly depends on your metabolism. you’re stronger than this. make a daily goal for yourself, like “40 situps a day, 50 jumping jacks, 5 push ups.” like that, everyday :)
Anonymous: How do you get over someone you've never dated? When they're in the same group of friends as you... and how do you know whether you should decide to give up on him in the first place?
That is actually hard, i have no strategy to get over someone like that especially if they are in the same friend group as you. one thing i know for sure is that you could only like him more instead! One thing ive learned from my past experience is that i told the person that i liked them, and it took some time for me to stop but he understood me, and where i was coming from.
how do you know when to give up? Give up when he mistreats you, when he has major mood swings when he is around you and also if he isnt there for you like what a real friend would do! :)
best of luck, i hope that helps xx
Anonymous: I'm inlove with my bestfriend but I don't want to loose our friendship... what should I do? :(
that happens a lot to many people! it also happened to me. i think what is best is to keep it to yourself first because being bestfriends with someone is a great thing, it doesnt come very often! There are so many possiblilities, like if you tell your bestfriend 3 possible things could happen!
1) he likes you back
2) he’d be awkward about it
3) ^ if he was your bestfriend, he’d understand and probably have felt the same way about you from time to time :)
you just have to take a chance, you would regret not letting him know once you look back at your opportunities! Take risks, it’s what we’re here for <3
hope that helps! xox
Anonymous: im really skinny and i really love to eat lol but i never get fat do you know any healthy way to gain some more weight :)? thankyou!
if you love to eat, and you want to be skinny, it’s really simple. All you have to do is eat a balanced meal, like ex. equal amount of veggies and meat <3 Well, if you want to be skinnier, it doesnt really work that way because its also based on the structure of your bone, whether your bone is thick or thin too :)
hope that helps! x
Anonymous: well i get an urge to murder my sister sometimes.
Siblings are always going to get on your bad side from time to time, but that’s like their job, aha. but at the end of day, they are going to be one of the most important person to you <3
Anonymous: i need advice! so i'm in this group and i feel like completely ignored, every time i say something i either don't get an answer or someone else starts talking about something else :( i think i wanna leave this group, however it is the first group i've ever been in, and it has so many great blogs that could help me but i don't know what to do :(
Well, i think that being in a group only helps when your voice is being heard. even if they can help you out, but so can other people as well :) you want to be in a group where you’re just as equal as everybody else, because that’s what you deserve at least! Don’t worry if it’s your first group. There are plenty more groups out there that will help you out xo i as well left the first group because it was just getting annoying and so much more so I can relate!
hope that helps xo